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Friday, March 02, 2007

Self Affirmation

I am a good person. I am not stupid. I am not lazy. I take good care of my children and I love them. Just because I stay at home does not make me less than. I have skills. I can type faster than most front desk secretaries and with greater accuracy (including spelling). Just because I can do other, more domestic, tasks does not make me mentally dim.

I am working on a bachelor's degree in social work. I want to help people. It may take me a long time to finish, but I am DOING something in the mean time. I am trying to raise loving, responsible, intelligent, creative, beautiful children. I can't cook well. SO WHAT?! Does it make me less of a good wife? Hell no. If I forced my cooking upon us every night, I could be arrested.

Like so many of you out there like me, don't take the poopy anymore. I wipe shit daily, I don't need it from any of the holier-than-thou working force. I don't need to be reminded that I don't have an income check with my name on it. I don't need to be asked time and again when I will graduate and START my career. My life is good. I like it. So suck it up and face facts. I am fulfilled and happy. Maybe, just maybe, if you have to ask me questions about what I am NOT doing, it may reflect your less than happy life. Just a suggestion.

LOVE to all
Heather

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think from this E mail I have seen that someone has made you very upset. I for one think that you do a great job with your kids and I know you are much smarter then I will ever be. I have always praised you on that. Miss you!!

Anonymous said...

Whoa, whoa, whoa,what is going on? I haven't checked your blog for a long time, so I don't know where to go to see what prompted your last entry.
You are a wonderful person, a wonderful mother, and you do such wonderful things. And, not only that, I AGREE WITH APRIL! So, what's up? Must know.
Love you, E.